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“Everyone is speaking as though they have completed a psychological assessment on you, and everyone is becoming so self-absorbed in their pursuit to ‘protect their peace’.

The worst person you know has learnt therapy-speakradgemagazine.substack.com

5:20 PM · Oct 18, 2026

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“Our Instagram began telling us how to set boundaries, our TikTok became flooded with trauma experts, and influencers became the most qualified people to diagnose us.

The worst person you know has learnt therapy-speakradgemagazine.substack.com

“Psychology via social media is lucrative content, and we suddenly became a generation that treats people badly because an infographic told us to.

The worst person you know has learnt therapy-speakradgemagazine.substack.com

“There is a particular kind of power in being told not only what you did but also why you did it by someone who doesn’t know you at all, who decided to have an issue with you before they even met you. Claiming you see through someone and know why they act a certain way leaves very little room for disagreements. If you deny it, you are a liar. If you explain yourself, you are making excuses. If you object to the accusation, you are being defensive, and don’t you dare seem sad, or else you are a victim!

The worst person you know has learnt therapy-speakradgemagazine.substack.com

“We are increasingly comfortable with the idea that someone’s worst moment tells us who they fundamentally are. Once a label has stuck, everything else they do is further evidence.

The worst person you know has learnt therapy-speakradgemagazine.substack.com

“Being able to tell someone that they have hurt you is an important part of having relationships with others; however, accountability means allowing someone to apologise and not psychologically diagnosing them. It seems that nobody gets to be a person for very long before they become a case study.

The worst person you know has learnt therapy-speakradgemagazine.substack.com

“We want to control how people behave, react, and speak so we can keep ourselves on our high horses and act as if anyone who behaves slightly ‘odd’ is beneath us. Not everyone who has standards in a relationship is controlling, not everyone who doesn’t deal with being spoken over is a narcissist, and not everyone who behaves badly is irredeemably toxic. You can dislike somebody without needing a psychological explanation for why, and most importantly, you can be wrong about someone without needing to construct an entire theory of their personality to justify it.

The worst person you know has learnt therapy-speakradgemagazine.substack.com

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“It has become so normalised to treat people horribly in order to have a boundary or be at peace.

The worst person you know has learnt therapy-speakradgemagazine.substack.com